Marriage

I was listening to a radio show on the way to church on Sunday and heard something that really stuck with me. The ladies were talking about a book on marriage that one of them had read and one of the marriage tips was: Be the spouse that you want your spouse to be. Why should I ask Brian to be something that I am not prepared to be? That's not fair to him. Instead of focusing on Brian not doing something, focus on doing it myself. It will be hard, but I think it will make our marriage better. Before anyone asks, no we are not headed to Divorce Court, but what marriage doesn't need work.